Author Archives: Prospero

Happy Valentine’s Day

Right, Valentine’s Day is geared up for couples and to a lesser extent the unrequited romances, and I can understand how some people can get unhappy about being single on Valentine’s Day, but crisis and opportunity are often found near … Continue reading

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Some “Has Been” dating advice from William Shatner

Well, not exactly from William Shatner in person, but something I was thinking of while listening to his album “Has Been” yesterday. If you don’t have the album, you should get it right away (along with his magnificent 60′s psychedelic … Continue reading

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website update

Hi again I have been working hard on this for a few nights now, and hopefully the new look is up to your liking. Still a few dodgy links in the site somewhere, but I am tracking them down like … Continue reading

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…and coming soon on Single Guy Dating Advice

Hi Folks just a quick note to explain what has been going on at the site since my last post. I have a couple of guest authors lined up. Very special ladies indeed One of them, who is a professional … Continue reading

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…and the Lord would spare Sodom for the sake of 10 righteous men.

hi guys Don’t worry, Prospero is still at the controls here, but you didn’t hear from me for over a month! I have been busier than expected with my regular work and then had a great holiday (with a spectacular … Continue reading

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The Dating Road to Damascus

Bob Hope and Bing Crosby made a series of movies called “The Road to…” like “The Road to Singapore” and “The Road to Hong Kong”, but it was Saint Paul who took the road to Damascus, and it made him … Continue reading

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My Prince is looking for me…

Just seeking? Just being sought? I got an email from one of my female readers last week. She shared her thoughts on dating, explained that she is never “actively looking” to be part of a couple. “The best quote that … Continue reading

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A dating lesson from the cockpit helps find a Bond Girl

Of course, I knew the photo she meant, this is the only photo I have of me in the cockpit of anything. But I have no idea what an R-22 was, but thankfully google rescued me from my ignorance, and … Continue reading

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Reason, Pascal and Whitesnake

“The heart has reasons that reason knows nothing of.” Blaise Pascal   As a mullet shaking, card carrying heavy rock fan in the 1980s, I studied the work of Whitesnake (especially their videos) and tried to live by their teachings. … Continue reading

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Sometimes it’s not you, it’s her.

I was gutted when Agnes Heartbreaker sent me the text : “Apologies for not getting in touch. I have been thinking, and there will be nothing between us. I would like to wish you all the best in the future.” … Continue reading

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