Category Archives: neighbourhood and community

Happy Valentine’s Day

Right, Valentine’s Day is geared up for couples and to a lesser extent the unrequited romances, and I can understand how some people can get unhappy about being single on Valentine’s Day, but crisis and opportunity are often found near … Continue reading

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My Prince is looking for me…

Just seeking? Just being sought? I got an email from one of my female readers last week. She shared her thoughts on dating, explained that she is never “actively looking” to be part of a couple. “The best quote that … Continue reading

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Where is the best place to find girls to date?

Well, this seems to be in a state of change at the moment. It’s anecdotal, based on a sample size of ONE  (that would be me), but I definitely think that activity on the main online dating sites is down. … Continue reading

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The Big 4

The Big 4…not to be confused with the Big 5. I had breakfast at a cafe in Cape Town and they offer two variations – Big 5 (sausage, bacon, egg, chips, coffee) and Healthy 5 (muesli, orange juice, yoghurt, fruit … Continue reading

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The definition of insanity…

The definition of insanity is doing the same thing over and over again and expecting a different result. Now I have seen that quote attributed to various thinkers though history: from Benjamin Franklin to Roy Keane, via Einstein. or to put it another … Continue reading

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Where to find girls – again

So I heard a lady summarise it with clinical brutality. If you are looking for someone special in your life there are 4 basic avenues of dating opportunity. Friends and Family Work Neighbourhood Online And that is it. Now you … Continue reading

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Finding girls that you want to date

So, single guys of the world unite. Dating awaits us. But where are we going to find these girls? I wandered lonely as a cloud that floats on high o’er vales and hills, when all at once I saw a … Continue reading

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